My GoFundMe is going very well indeed! I still need a little more help. But thanks to everyone who has donated so far. I will definitely be able to get this flat now. And should just scrape through the first month, if all goes to plan. Here is the link to my page if anyone could spare £1 or £5 to help me round this number up. I would be eternally grateful :) xxx

  

Is the perfect partner out there? Probably not but a girl can dream ;)

Okay so. These are my thoughts. About the kind of partner I would like/want/need in the future :P

They're just thoughts, not set in stone. More wondering if it's possible to find someone who specifically fits my jigsaw puzzle piece that I've created over the course of my life time so far. Though it's ever changing. Is it possible to find someone that fits perfectly? Or is it really too much to ask.

So here are my thoughts on the perfect partner for me.

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I need someone who.. Wait. Let me rephrase that. I don't need anyone.

I WANT someone who is as crazy as I am.

I want someone who gets on with kids cause I have a 7 year old daughter, who I see at weekends. If she doesn't approve of this someone then it's a no go.

I want someone who's adventurous and likes to travel, but loves home comforts.

Loves family, and generally just good with people cause it'd be amazing if this someone also happened to get on with the majority of my friends (I have a wide variety of them. An they're all awesome in their own individual way)

This someone HAS to be also approved by my best friend so they'd have to be cool with being approved of by her lol.

I want this someone to be into anime, manga, furries, (maybe even has, or wants to get a fursuit some day an would go to a furcon with me :D).

Someone who is into marvel, dc, world of Warcraft, league of legends, final fantasy, zelda, gaming in general obvs, but deffo mmorpgs,

Aaaaand cosplay.

I want them to be into all kinds of music from the dance and r&b and rap an techno, to the heavy metal and rock, to old classic rock an roll and classical music and all sorts of genres in between Cx like we could go to reading or Leeds festival, then creamfields.. Then download etc, or we could go to a rave and then to a concert hall to enjoy an amazing opera or orchestra an then to a band night, jam night or a rock concert. Know what I mean?

I want someone who loves to read novels just as much as manga or comic books.

Someone who loves movies, gaming, going out an having fun at an arcade, exploring the countryside or walking along the beach when it's not freezing cold, orrr taking pictures of weird an wonderful places. Or finding the beauty in old abandoned buildings etc.

I love photography Cx

But someone who just as much loves to sit in an get cozy and just chill. And game or watch tv.

I want someone who works hard but enjoys being lazy.

I want someone who loves animals and couldn't live without them in their life. Taking over their house etc etc, an I mean like all the animals. Lizards, snakes, cats, dogs, rats snails, moths, spiders, scorpions, birds, cockroaches, ferrets, fish, frogs, etc etc. I could go on but I'll stop there ;) Because in my eyes every creature is beautiful, even if some might make me jump if they caught me unawares haha.

I COULD live my life not surrounded by amazing creatures if I HAD to but... That'd be boring ><

I want someone who likes watching tv an can get just as obsessed about a tv series as I do. Drama, horror, comedy, "kids" cartoon, fantasy, even the odd game show or reality tv show o; etc.

I want someone who's really really into sex but not obsessed with it. Their life isn't ruled by it. Doesn't demand it every night but. Yeah. Sexually open, not completely opposed to the idea of threesomes in the future but happy it just being the two of us. O; I have a fair amount of kinky fetishes, would be nice to share them with someone. x3 But it's not something I want to be the first thing we talk about, or all we talk about, I don't want our lives to revolve around sex.

I want them to be confident in themselves. Romantic sometimes but not overly sickly romantic. I'm not a mega mushy lovey dovey kind of person, but the odd romantic gesture does feel nice ^^ and I would do the same for whomever I was with. I'm allergic to flowers. But looooove chocolate. ;) However as far as romantic gifts go. I'd much prefer a new game or a cool character figurine or a dvd or a cute anime plushie or a book!! XD Over some boring box of chocolates any day, (though choccy added as a side dish will always go down well ;P) IF gifts were getting given for whatever reason hehe.  :p But i'd like to point out. I don't need gifts. I don't want them all the time. They're just.. Nice on the right occasions. But if money is tight. I wont hold it against you. xD
I'm the opposite of high maintenance. :')

Someone who loves food and will try almost anything at least once.

I couldn't live with a vegetarian of a vegan, I'm sorry but I just couldn't. I respect vegetarians and vegans. But I selfishly love meat and dairy way too much to even feel remotely bad about consuming it lol. My mouths watering just thinking about burgers and bacon.

And I love fish. Which reminds me I gotta try more seafood!!

One thing I don't think I'll ever try though is snail. I draw the line at snail. xD

Someone who looks after themselves well. Looks after their body, but isn't obsessed about keeping fit all the time (though workouts can be fun o; I just don't see it as a need to be a part of my daily/weekly routine because fuck that lol but I don't object to it being part of theirs ;3)

Someone who looks after their teeth, but they don't have to be perfect, too white is weird, but bad breath or mega bad teeth do, I'm sorry to say, really put me off.

Someone who can wash their own clothes, knows about paying bills and tax an all that other grown up stuff.

Someone who showers around every other day. (don't mind the occasional lapse if feeling lazy or wanting to save a bit of water :P). So, not a complete slob or sweaty ass lol. But also not obsessed with always being clean. An doesn't mind being a bit slobby sometimes, not obsessed with a clean tidy house but wouldn't enjoy living in a huge mess. cx I like to keep things fairly tidy.

Someone who loves cuddles.

Someone who likes the dark, the stars, and the night sky.

Someone who likes the weird and wonderful.

Someone who holds themselves well. Who isn't  afraid to stand up for themselves or for others.

Someone who is caring.

Someone who isn't religious. An stands up for equal rights for all genders, races, religions and sexual orientations.

TATTOOS AND PIERCINGS. 
Okay. So I love tattoos if they're decent done tastefully, have meaning, or just plain awesome. I personally don't have any, ONLY because I'm too poor to pay for them. 
I do want tattoos in the future, so they'd have to be cool with that haha. Piercings I used to have a fair few more than I do now. Mostly on my face. I miss them, and I don't miss them. In time some of them just got annoying. But I do like piercings. I'd happily get more, ears especially. Lips again, maybe. 

Someone who agrees pink and blue are JUST COLOURS, and not associated with a gender -.-. That goes for jobs, toys, clothes and all other manner of things that society seems to assign to a gender. I'm sick of hearing kids say "you can't do/like/be that because you're a girl/boy." Hopefully one day that kind of thinking will be stamped out. 

Someone who thinks they might want a family in the future but are undecided on the matter. So not dead set either way if you get me. Cause that's what I am right now. Cx

Okay this bit is random an I'm not too bothered either way cause it doesn't rule my life however it would be nice..

I don't condone doing drugs nor do I like them. But I don't judge those who do it. I just don't want that kind of thing in my life. Unless it's weed. Weed I'm okay with. I like weed. I like getting high every now and again. It's nice :) it relaxes me, an if I have someone else to chill an get high with sometimes then, awesome.

I'm more of a spliff person than a bong person but I don't smoke otherwise, so I'm not all that keen on the tobacco intake that comes with smoking spliffs >< but oh well.

Now drinking alcohol I also enjoy, :) a nice cold drink of amaretto and Coke every now and again in the evening is lovely. Or a steam boat. Thems mah faves. o;

I like ale but I'm not a massive ale drinker. I'd only drink it sometimes if I'm out an just down the pub (I'm not a huge pub goer however some of my friends are an I admit I do enjoy going when I go with them, just to chill an drink and chat or play darts or pool or even have a meal as well.) It's usually the money side of things that holds me back.

Though generally I'm a tea drinker. So someone who loves tea has a big tick next to them for me lol. I also love a good caramel latte. ;D

 As for going out clubbing, someone who enjoys it sometimes, getting a little bit drunk and clubbing your ass off to dance music, or the same but headbanging in the Krazy house in Liverpool, but I'm not the kind to want party (or afford to) every weekend, plus it's when I have my daughter usually haha. So it's a kind of nice thing to do every now and again. When money allows me.

I am just as happy having a few mates round and playing chess or board games or having a film marathon OR playing cards against humanity OR World or warcraft/other gaming sessions, and drinking OR munching a take-out and just chill know what I mean?

I would want someone who could cook only because I can't lmao. Well I can do basic stuff but nothing fancy. To be honest as long as they can basic cook stuff too (and I mean cook, not just heat up frozen stuff all the time) I'm not really that fussed. As long as they don't care that I can't cook haha.

:)

I want someone who's fascinated with science  and history, I love watching documentaries about all that stuff and nature etc etc. Like I just enjoy it. I don't pretend to know everything, (I despise a know it all) it's fun and exciting to learn about things you never knew before. Learn about history, watch time team digs Cx or David Attenboroughs awesome nature documentaries. Or watch Countryfile haha. Or Springwatch etc.

Which brings me on to another point.

I want someone who respects the environment. I'm not one to be a hippy or obsessed with being good to Mother Nature in everything I do cause it'd take over my life. I'm not a tree hugger.

But I do respect nature.

And I like to recycle and I NEVER litter. If i see you litter. I will be disgusted.
But it doesn't rule my life. ^^ I do however refuse to buy any type of egg that isn't free range lol.

Basically I want someone who is .. Me. Damn it all!!! Is it too much to ask!?!?!

Probably :p but a girl can dream!!